Telling your supervisor at work that you have aspergers/autism can be a daunting task, but at somepoint you may be in a situation when you should tell your supervisor.
What should you say?
How should you say it?
This is a difficult decision-and while i don’t offer any clinical advice-I think my experiences could help because I have been there, been through that, and done it.
First off, I would say it is not a good idea to divulge having aspergers in an interview process-it just never made any sense to me to do so. I work to promote awareness about aspergers, and would like to use my strengths and experiences to consult for other adults with aspergers, and when it came to jobs, I suggest disclosing AFTER the job offer. In the interview, I would get the opportunity to discuss my strengths, and talk about how I am turning my weaknesses into strengths. Following the offer, I suggest divulging your diagnosis and talking about how your experience is something that has forced me to learn alternate strategies (turning your weakness into a strength)
It is all in how you say it-make sure to keep the details to a minimum.
When it comes to work-sometimes relationships are in the same way-you definately don’t want to reveal to much the first time you meet someone, but finding the right words to use is just as important as your decision to disclose. Always start by using your strengths, and how you have turned weaknesses into strengths by learning more.
Your Aspergers can be a strength in your relationships and your work life, because it will force you to have to learn different strategies for developing social skills in a world that absolutely demands you have them. It can be intimidating, but definately done.